2nd, Did you ask her what "I need someone to take care of me" means to her? Sounds like you were trying to guess what she meant.

That was a perfect opportunity for you to listen and validate, to HEAR exactly what she means.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.