Meltdowns really helps relieve stress, after a good cry I always feel better. Like I hit a reset button.
Good analogy, that's exactly what it feels like. Like I can keep going at least one more day, one day at a time.
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Happiness is a choice. Always remember that. You have to wake up and decide that you are going to be happy that day. If things in your life make you unhappy you have to decide to deal with them or change them. That is what DB does for us.
Yes, true, thanks for the reminder. It's hard to get that back when you feel like the person you love has been beating you down for years.
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Last night I went for a drive with my dog, all windows down singing cheezy 80's music to the top of my lungs. I was happy.
Love it! Nothing like cheesy 80s to cheer you up!
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Our dog use to be the center of my W world, now she can care less about him. She wanted to send him to the SPCA. I couldn't believe how she could love him to pieces for so many years then just give up on him so suddenly. I could not do that, it was hard to find an apartment that took dogs when we split. My dog was always my buddy but he is so much more special to me now. He listens to me and is a great motivator for exercise.
Very sad. I've discovered this is a great indicator that their issues are not all about you, when it affects the dog too. It's THEIR problem!!!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
