Fly,
So great to hear that you are feeling good and living life! I know your W was pressuring you to keep at it and move back in, but you have recognized that she is not yet ready to put in the required effort. Good of you to notice that, as you don't want to put the cart before the horse and rush things. In the meantime, you are right, life goes on and you keep moving forward.

-cp


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.