It is normal to have them feelings, you are still in the grieving process. Each case has a different time line. She has hurt you tremendously and now you see her moving on with her life with another male role model in your daughters life. There is some jealousy with that & you would not be human if you never felt that way.

Its amazing how much more attached we become with our children during these tough times.

I agree with an above post, invite baby mama and it would be on her to accept or decline.

Keep up this hard work with class and dignity. Your doing great!


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.