So the random texts continue... lol. My H had a big blow up recently, shouting his intention to leave ASAP, spewing, not touching, followed with a text about the sale price of milk the next day.
I think there are a couple things in play here.
MLCers have terrible memories. Either they don't remember clearly what they did/said, or they don't have a great grasp on when they did/said the offensive things.
MLCers feel completely justified. Their spouse and/or the world at large has treated them so badly that their choices are reasonable - to themselves.
If the texts bother you, if you feel they set you back, then ask him to stop.
get some sleep girl!
Take care,
Jaye
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
get some sleep girl! 
