Pregnant h wants a divorce after deployment

[Preggonomore]

Ok, got it. Goals.

Here are some:

- stop talking about OW as if she is the center of our problems.
- stop talking about OW, period.
- stop pursuing by trying to convince him to stay ---- THIS IS HARD
- be pleasant to be around
- continue to GAL
- be more rational and level headed when discussions of divorce present themselves (not losing it in tears and threats)