Unconditional love doesn't mean you take care of people.
Unconditional love means you recognize that you aren't willing to give up yourself to save her, so you let her go to fix herself. You can still love her, just from a distance. Loving someone includes allowing them control of their life.
Ditto, everything Fly said.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss