This is going to come up time and again when figuring out kid stuff. Plan ahead. Sit down and make a schedule.
Be proactive.
There was a schedule. She asked for me to take time off from work (that I didn't have) so I could have the kids longer for a weekend. I said no. She disregarded the schedule and creating her own tempory one. One that meant I couldn't see S1 on his birthday.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14