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I cannot tell you how much I relate to that. i think many of the people who post here are not traditional/conventional. But our MLC partners loved us, and when you are being different in a world that is often hostile to difference, being loved and celebrated is very important.


Me too. On the one hand, he celebrated how I was different and seemed to love me for it because he was different too--but tried desperately to BE what everyone wanted him to be. On the other hand, he resented how I was OK with being who I was and went with it.

I miss that feeling of being accepted, flaws and all. HOw can someone accept and reject you all at once. It was a toss up, as the marriage went on, which H I would face each day. The one who didn't like me or the one who loved me for who I was.

Heather


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