LOL, sorry to be the 3 trillionth person to suggest that.

When I read it, it had some really good ideas on things you could do to progress the kind of closeness you are looking for. As your H is a bit more responsive than mine, I think it might work for you.

Ask your C the same question you asked here. I have an appointment with a C today, so I am nervous too!

Good luck.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.