Your right she needs somebody to take care of her...........herself. You cant fix that for her.
Unconditional love doesn't mean that you need to take care of her, just support her in the decisions she makes with no judgment.
I still see the "I get the feeling......", Yes she's chasing a fantasy, but its on her to realize there's no such thing. Its an illusion all WAW try to seek, but never find. Put it this way, its about being happy with what you have, not what your not getting in the end.
I also think you also know how dangerous it is to let on that you'll always be there for her. You can say you will always have a spot in your heart for her, and always support her, but you might not be THERE for her. That choice is really not yours.
Your making excuses of why she is the way she is, but lets be honest, until SHE'S ready to address those things about herself theres really no chance anything is gonna change, they may lie dormant for a while, but again they will rear they're ugly head.
