I don't have any advice on the goals yet as I am still trying to figure out mine!

Read 5 Love Languages too, and this could help you set some goals towards what you want. Just a thought.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.