Lack of sleep definitely inhibits our thought process and energy level. Duh! LOL I had 4 1/2 hours last night but it was my fault. You'll feel better tomorrow.
It is odd how they text, call or come by after nc for awhile. In you SO's case, I still think the ow has either been sent down the road or decided that she needed more than he could give her. MLC has a way of shining brightly even with the ow.
Don't worry about what his reasons are right now. You are in the drivers seat (no pun intended) of your new life. You can choose to ignore him and keep moving forward as you have been or let it play out and see where it leads. If you are completely detached and can handle whatever might happen good or bad then let it unfold.
You have to make that decision. Make it knowing that we are here to support you and the vets are here to guide you should you need help. I'm naturally curious and would stay engaged just to see where it went. What do you have to lose? Again, only you know the answer to that and whether you have the strength to deal with whatever the end result might be. Positive thinking NLT sees that it might not be as bad a what you think. With no expectations how can you go wrong! LOL
In response to your comment. YES, hot tubs are not only fun but relaxing and stress relieving. The kids call my/our home a resort. Lucky for me/us they have busy lives and can't get over as often as they'd like.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
