Made dinner for us, we watched the news and bathed S1 together.
I mentioned that my friends and I were going to a pumpkin patch this week, but it he wanted to go, I'd wait to go with him on the weekend.
His other son (my stepson) is coming to visit next week and H said, yes, wait for SS11 to arrive so we can all go together.
He still wants to do things together.
I finished reading Divorce Busting and think I figured out what I want: to get closer to H emotionally and eventually physically. I don't know how to go about setting goals to achieve this. Any insights?
I know that one of my "more of the same" is putting him down for what he is doing to us and he has said that this is pushing him away, but every time he goes to talk with OW I just lose it. I want to kick him out of the house and bash him.
