TRY RESPONDING, so you don't get an ugly surprise.
"H,
I promise I do not wish to drag this out. I understand you want out of the marriage. Yes, if I had it to do over again, there are many things I'd do differently, but it seems to late for that now. I accept that you want this.
However, the PSA itself is something I'm working on with my L, and when my L tells me we are ready, legally, I will sign it as quickly as I can.
I hope all is well with you."
Of course I am presuming you DO have a L, right? And how long can they really take "perusing" the PSA?
You cannot stop the divorce. Slowing it down sure seems to annoy him. But fwiw, I have two family members who divorced, only to reconcile years later. FIve years later to be exact, but it was better the second time around. OF course in those two cases, both parties in each couple did a lot of work on themselves and really changed and did it without the goal of reconciling.
So yes, it happens.
Like I said, the more you challenge his choices, the more you force him to defend them
or in this case the more he refuses to discuss anything with you.
I think he sounds resolute. He sure seems to believes he HAS told you things you either "blocked out" or didn't believe.
Can you now recall some of those things? And is he correct in saying you two argued a lot?
From your own words, I sensed a lot of dissatisfaction expressed by you to him so I assume there were fights. Is that what he's referring to?
What would you change in yourself if you two were to reconcile?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
