So another kink in the story has become reality...we're looking to move by November. Brakes all on in the dating arena. He basically told me he didn't want to get hurt again...been down that road to many times.

Funny cause I feel rejected, again. I think it's more the I want something that I can't have. But, I'm ok with it. Just not sure how to end or say goodbye to a 2 week fling. or do you?

This move could put a lot of kinks into the holiday plans for the kids joining their dad in the Keys. We'll be about 2-3 hours away from the airport. I suppose he would have to swing by and drive to pick my D up. Awkward. He'll be with GF...argh! avoidance!!

That's the last thing I want is to have to be in position to meet her! Let alone deal with him with her! How do people handle this after the divorce and fallout?


M: 49 H: 49
S23 D24 (disabled from car accident 6 yrs ago)
M: 21yrs
BD: 1 month after D home from hospital (after 6 months)
D: 3/11/11
Moved: 10/11/11 to FL for SCI recovery
X: engaged w/OW