Psychotherapy and a workout? Can't beat that with a stick!
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The vets tell us we will know for certain when we are done. While I'm sure this is true, I also have to believe that before we get to that point we will bounce back and forth plenty. Maybe like I've been doing?
That's exactly right. It's been my experience, both for myself and watching others, that is exactly how it works. And you'll think you're done and then... won't be. It helps if you have no contact, but often that's not the way it happens. I disagree with the resolve part - I think it'll be more like, "no more" and then "and? why should I care?" rather than the current, "why do I still care?" It's a process and it takes a long time and a lot of steps. As one person once put it, "forgiveness. It's your ticket out of he**" It releases you from the burden of it all and it can and should be done regardless of what she's doing.
You'll get there. You have a lot of moxy
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
