Digging in

[NTX_Dad]

I am confused. She filed for Divorce but wants you to sign a dissolution?

But since you won't sign the dissolution, she's threatening to press the divorce and ask for everything except the kitchen sink?

I know this is a divorce busting site, but I almost feel like you should just sign the dissolution to protect YOU. There will be no winners if this turns into a divorce, and if she's offering a dissolution instead, I'd take that.

I'm not there and don't know either one of you, but let's face it, she's all over the board and has mainly shown signs of pulling away. Granted she's actually probably more confused than anything but if she's offering a "get out of jail free" card, its something to consider.

It may be a bluff, it may not. But if you sign and she files it and your marriage is dissolved, it's not the end of the world. Your relationship will continue as-is for a while... you will both more than likely be involved in each others life for some time to come. Who's to say you can't get back together in the future?

This whole thing doesn't make sense, are you sure she hasn't won the lottery or something and she doesn't want to share it with you? I am stunned someone would offer you an easy way out.