Our relationship was very mother/child. He had no responsibilities.
From your post and specifically this, there is a lot of codependency going on.
I am the H in a relationship from what you stated ^^
Everything I did was self serving, until I knew my W was leaving me.
IMO your H needs to have an awakening before anything real change.
That said, step back and breathe. Don't rush anything and let the people here help you.
Focus on you and dig deep to start seeing what what you really want.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
