I never hit her, abused her. We had some fights, but nothing huge. The last few months she was cold and angry, so I kept away from her out of fear. I never thought she'd divorce me. Her family has been through divorce. Two counselors recommended going out for dinner, she refused. Its like she got a baby from me and thats all she wanted. She won't discuss anything with me. Her last email was a veiled threat. If I spoke about anything other than my D's needs, who knows what she'd do. Like I told my counselor, this is LTR.