I'm not called trying to do 180 for nothing you know, lol. I do try and focus on myself smile The time never seems right with H to bring anything up with him, he is being very cloak and dagger about everything he does nowadays. I'll take everything on board that you said and I'll try a bit harder smile Again thanks for the input smile


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!