I've tried everything including DB, nothing is working. I keep my cool in front of her, dress well, try being friendly, but it doesn't phase her. She wants out. There's a bf in her life. She wants to hate me. That's basically it.
snafu, "trying" DB takes a looooooooooooooooong time with LOTS of patience. I know you want things to move and work out and be happy with M again but it sounds more like you are pressuring her still instead of DB'ing. So I hardly think a few months of db is tantamount to 'nothing working'.
Post your pressuring thoughts here before you talk or see her and you will get some great advice. At times, it will be hard to follow, but it is valuable to gain another perspective on your terrible situation. Hang in there.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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