LTH, Great news! I hope things go well for both of you.

My gut reaction to what you have posted is that you may be biting off more that you can chew. Let me explain what I mean.

Going back to school is something that is great and I think you should do it, but maybe not right now. I understand you may have excitement and motivation, the reason I say this is I think it may divert you from working on your M. It is a great Gal and way to improve you and I could go on and on, I'm not saying don't just thinking wait until things settle some and make marriage counseling a priority, whatever it takes.

My W went back to school online and got her BA for nursing and then her masters as a nursing educator. It was very time consuming and expensive. Worth every penny, not because it got her advancements, but because she did something for her. So I am 100% for you doing it!

I just want you to succeed with your marriage.

Maybe I am wrong, maybe you can do it all running, that is your call.

Just my thoughts.


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy