Thanks for your input JP and for coming over to my thread and sharing your thoughts I did confront H over another issue and he just told me more lies. I even said just tell me, you won't upset me, but still he wouldn't tell me. He's told me that she is just a friend, so I pursue this for fear of annoying him. He's already told me not to start telling people that she's more than just a friend, so I've got to keep my mouth shut over this. I shall just carry on being polite and friendly to him. I've not been confronting him over anything else lately and if I do then it's just in a friendly way. I appreciate your advice JP as I know that you're starting to have a better relationship with your wife
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I did confront H over another issue and he just told me more lies. I even said just tell me, you won't upset me, but still he wouldn't tell me. He's told me that she is just a friend, so I pursue this for fear of annoying him. He's already told me not to start telling people that she's more than just a friend, so I've got to keep my mouth shut over this. I shall just carry on being polite and friendly to him. I've not been confronting him over anything else lately and if I do then it's just in a friendly way. I appreciate your advice JP as I know that you're starting to have a better relationship with your wife 
