Thank you again AS. I appreciate your directness.

This is what I am struggling with exactly. I am obviously seriously confused about how to detach properly in this situation.

I think I'm still so hurt that I think everything he is doing is trampling my heart over and over. I really believed him from the last time he had an A that as he said "I would never do this again because of all the hurt it caused".

I need to get over that, because it did happen again and it is out of my control what he chooses to do now.

Me happy. Me happy. Me happy. Regardless of situations I cannot control.

Thanks AS smile


p.s. I do have an appt w/db coach tomorrow. Much needed.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.