Instead of. The miss you can be a loaded statement in this situation. If you miss her and want to see her, then invite her to get together or call or something. If you miss really miss her, take care of that, don't just make a statement about it that leaves it hanging.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
