Don't spend a lot of time worrying about labeling what's going on with your H. You may never know and it won't change anything.

What are your goals? You still seem very unsure and I get that but maybe you should, as you suggested yesterday, just wait until after the birth and then sort hings out.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss