Well you ask that she ask nicely and now she is, so don't punish her for that!

You are still bringing in what she did in the past and that has nothing to do with the question she is asking, right?

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.