I see them at her place because I live 30 min from her currently, and the youngest goes to bed at 7:30. Due to work I don't get home till 6:00.

We don't have any custody arrangements, just a verbal agreement on her terms. I don't have the money to hire a layer because if I ask for anything different she will go to court.

I have a 6 month plan to move near baby mamas house so then I should be able to have them over to my place without her supervision. Once I buy my own home near her, the daycare, their future school, I will then proceed for more visitation. Need all my ducks in a line first.


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.