She claimed the last 2 years of our relationship was hell. I was'nt emotionally there. I wasn't proactive with our marriage. Despite that, she went through IVF. Her mind is made up. Last week, I asked her if she had feelings for me. First she said yes, then not really. She seemed confused. This last email was very business like. Sunday, I told her I wished I'd been there for her emotionally. My shrink said all along there's another guy. Guess she was right. If you guys have any suggestions, please share.