Hi fellows, how is every one, she is going up and down, she wants me not to take him out of town, just said no problem.
When you say "out of town", what do you mean?
Most divorce or custody papers do NOT let a parent remove the child from an area, without the consent of the other parent. That's pretty standard Bruce.
Don't want to go into conflict any more just declared with her. Jus not worth, she keeps bring so much of noise. Is "noise" what you call it when she tells you something NOT positive? Do you treat her as if all that she tells you is "noise" to you?
Maybe it's the language problem, but it sure sounds like you don't respect her.
And we just don't have a heathy way for me to hear what she thinks and I have just started emailing her only present issues
Sounds true. You don't have a healthy way to hear her OR how to "table" a topic for later when you are BOTH calmer.
But the thing is, it's up to YOU to get healthy ways to hear her. That's your duty. She's trying to communicate but you seem to shut her out (the "noise") when it isn't positive. So,
You need to learn how to hear her. Are you seeing a professional about it? What are YOU doing to learn how to hear the mother of your child?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016