"But I won't be that guy. Even if she pushes me into D, I will be the one that stood for her, fought for her, and never quit on her.

I'm glad I'm here. I'm not angry anymore, I'm not really expecting any changes from her, I'm doing this for ME, so that I can look back with honor, dignity, and knowing I did the right thing no matter what."


Well written! And, really, you stated simply what this whole DB'ing thing is all about. We can only change ourselves, and in doing so, we become better people, no matter what happens to our M.

You are a great example to the rest of us! Thanks for sharing.