I haven’t posted on your thread in a long time but I stumbled on this one: “Surprisingly, we are still in couples counceling.” Give this a thought: Why are YOU still in this?
I am still in MC because I love her and I still have some faint hope that we can R. Even when she is at her worst, I still feel much love for her. I dont know if that is healthy at this point in our M though.
I am still in MC mainly to help my W and I to learn to communicate better about our D and how to best help our children through the D.
I do still hope and pray that our M will be saved. Its a difficult path to walk while I am also trying to move forward with my life.
Hoping for our M to be healed and moving forward with my life seem to be diametrically opposed (complete opposites for those of you in Yorba Linda, LOL)
Anyway, I believe my W is actively working on beginning a R with OM. Just a strong feeling I get.
BTW, my kids are so wonderful. We had a great day together this past Saturday. We went to church in the morning. W went too. Then we went to ride the gokarts in wheatfield in the afternoon without W. We then went home and got ready to go to the drive-in theater without W. We played mini golf and played on the playground before the movie. We saw "Cloudy with a chance of Meatballs 2". A very great day.
