Nope, not very Christian, but H does have it coming to him. His usual reaction though is "too much BS at the legion these day, don't go there when I'm not working" (and that is where he works so I'm sure he probably hears it even when he's there on his own). Hmmm, sounds like he doesn't like hearing the truth
The only excuse I've got for not decluttering is that too much of H's stuff is still taking up space. That and I'm lazy - just kidding on that last bit . Seriously, with the weather getting cooler, and wetter, I'll be more motivated to stay indoors so maybe I'll stop using H's stuff as an excuse. I've got loads of packing boxes in the garage - I can quite easily box his stuff up and make a list of what I put in which box so he can figure it out when he gets it back to his place. I'll give him another week or so to do it himself, then I think S13 and I will spend a Saturday and get it taken care of . I can start reorganizing the space that he's already vacated, or that he never had anything of his in anyway like my kitchen - those cupboards could really do with a good clean-out and reorganization.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks