It is a fine line and it is hard to walk. I think – in Ws opinion – I am leaning a little towards not-nice, but that’s primarily when I tell her no to something. Funny thing is that every time I do this she turns and become very nice.
Being nice is all she has to return your volley, if she gets nasty your gonna walk away.
Originally Posted By: Fartiltre
Originally Posted By: T
It's the interactions that sound like they are not building anything positive. Don't give her a slice of cake but at least let her smell the crumbs.
But how? - I simply do not feel comfortable and relaxed around her. On the other hand I do believe that a meet-up with children would be so much easier for me to handle. No dinner, no sitting down but just playing with them.
T, thanks for the kind and not so kind words – they all mean a lot to me!
F
I think a meet-up if your comfortable with that would be the next step. Like Sandi says you will be coming to that soon.
No problem F, I know you prefer us to shoot straight from the hip!
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