I agree with Mr. Bond! lovethehub made A LOT of great points.
djharm, what is the point of you trying to save your marriage when it seems like you already are looking for the next wife?
Just my opinion, but it would do you well to seriously ponder why you want to be married and how you can work on being a better YOU.
And, the vets on these boards have great advice with perspectives that we can't always see ourselves when we're so close to a situation. Their insight is invaluable.
If you don't want honest advice, don't look here.
And, from a woman's standpoint, the physical stuff you did to your wife was WAY over the line.
