Can DBing backfire?

[indigo1]

I am fairly new to this but understand your concerns. My W has admitted to hanging around other men. I have recently cut off contact except regarding D. She actually told me that being around other people is making her miss me more. It seems they need to figure out what they want on their own and there is really nothing you can do to change that. I know how hard this is because I am feeling the pain myself. I have just recently come to terms with this and it is helping me feel better about myself. We only have control over ourselves at this point so why worry about what they are doing.