What I meant is there will be days of pure joy and welcoming from your W, but then for what appears to be no reason she may pull back and say things that make no sense. It was just a heads up on how conflicted they can appear to be. Don't base any of your reactions on her emotions if she should get this way. Just keep validating her in calm, cool way. Make sense?

However, it really sounds like now she is behaving nicely! How lucky for you, it sounds wonderful. smile


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.