Getting there with 180 and GALing part 3

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Well I still have to get my timer fixed on the oven so I can use my casserole dish (aka crockpot!) I'll be out all day tomorrow again so I don't want to risk cooking the curry in there as it'll have probably dried out by the time I get back home, lol.
I forgot to mention yesterday that when H cancelled his time with Son, my son didn't seen the least bit bothered. I bet he wishes he had his old dad back as well! He doesn't talk to me about his feelings because of his autism, but I've booked him an appt with the college mentor in case he feels like a chat. She will also work on his social skills with him
My MIL rang up yesterday afternoon. I know I shouldn't have, but I had to say something I asked if she enjoyed the wedding and that I'd noticed that H had took his "friend" with him. At first she was saying Oh I hadn't noticed, but I said I'd seen a photo of him, MIL and this "friend". I said I just wished that H would just tell the truth to me and she said well he probably doesn't want to hurt me. That's a joke! He can't hurt me anymore than he has already! There's one thing I can't stand and that's liars! I know I've lied to my parents about when H left, but that was different (I hope! lol). Anyway she then started talking about how H has lost this benefit money and how I'm managing but he's struggling. She seemed to be blaming me for him not having enough money. I said I'm sorry that she has to keep on giving him money and told her that I'm struggling as well. I said I can't even afford to buy me and my son some new clothes and that H always seems to be buying himself new clothes. She thought I was talking about the wedding and said that she had to buy him a new outfit as she didn't want him turning up looking like a tramp. It seems that H is lying to his mum about me and she's lapping up all his lies! I do wish she wouldn't ring at all, I don't want to really speak to her! If it's not my mum or dad it's my MIL! I'll just have to say I'm busy next time she rings or just not mention H. It's my fault again! They say a silence speaks a thousand words and there was a silence when I said to her that I know this "friend" of H's is just a friend. Hmmmm. I really am not bothered though as they look totally mismatched together. She only comes up to his shoulders and is about 10 years older than him. I don't reckon it will last, it'll all end in tears There's a lot of people I know that also know her and I know her myself. They can't see them together either.
Am I going on a bit? lol.
MH, I did something today straight out of the book change your life. There's two students in my class that start off by saying what's my son up to today and then start having a go at H for not taking care of son when I'm at college. Today one of them said "what's his excuse this week?". I just said "don't start!" and the conversation ended there Although it wasn't the ideal answer because it was a bit rude, at least it shut her up Hopefully they might take the hint that I don't want them having a go at H. One of them called him a p*rv*rt last week for some reason and when I questioned this she just went on about how I'm better off without him, etc.
Anyway I've got that off my chest, lol. Off to make our dinner and then to bible study. Might watch an episode of BBT whilst we're eating our dinner I'll catch up with the rest of the threads when I get home later