Only you can answer that for you. If you feel like a doormat, you are. If you have a need to try to save your marriage, then that's what you're doing. You do have 2 very young children whose lives will be changed by this. There's a lot to consider.
It's all in the interpretation.
And your interpretation is the only one that counts.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss