He filed for Divorce

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I tried everything. 180 and going dark pushed him further away thinking I gave up.

We separated in Sept 2011, I found out about OW in Dec 2011. He moved back in but kept her on the side as she was divorcing until March 2012 and he moved out again in April 2012, he owed it to himself to see what they have. In May 2012, he and I had our own affair which ended in June 2012 when he couldn't stay away from OW. In Sept 2012 he thought maybe we weren't done and wanted to try again but yet again, kept OW in the picture, we were completely separated with him saying he loves me but not like a wife and I already lost him in Jan 2013. In late Feb 2013, he was saying maybe he wanted to come home. That he wasn't sure. But yet again, he kept her involved in his life and spent his time with her, and let her in on his decision making. In March 2013, he was telling me she wants him to divorce me. That she is divorced and now if he is serious he will do the same. He didn't know what he wanted. Sometimes he wanted to come back. His bday is in April, so I wished him a happy, we had a decent conversation and the next day he tore me a new one. Said he was all alone on his bday (he said he was with his mom hmmm) and that sometimes he wanted to come back and that I don't listen to him and that is why he can't come back but now maybe he should just move on. I then lost my job. 2 weeks later he told me he looked into divorce. Said I need to understand where the OW is coming from. That she has the right to demand this. I said to just leave me alone. 2 weeks later he called. Nothing was said. 2 weeks after this he called again, more nothing. In July I went text crazy, we BOTH ignored our anniversary. He left me some message about how he just wanted to move on and was glad I met someone (I met no one, more lies) and that he was good to me but he met her during our separation (more lies) and he wanted to see me to talk. We never met to talk. I did get some hang up calls and crazy doorbell action (I do not answer) 3 days before his filing date. During one of the heated texts from me I said I am exhausted, just file then. So he did. I was not served properly, I got it in the mail. He says he signed nothing and will not discuss it with me, tells everyone it's just time now that it's been 2 years, it's just time, he doesn't love me like a wife and doesn't think he ever will and has no desire to try. I went crazy, tellign him this is a mistake etc.. he called on my bday a week ago to wish me a happy and to say, did you think I'd forget? (um YES, you're supposed to, you're divorcing me idiot).. I have heard nothing since, he has not dropped the case. It's uncontested, I refuse to sign. He said he doesn't know how to talk to me and has cut me off completely. I don't know if there is anytihng I can do now except wait. Hope he drops it, he probably won't.. she is nuts, lies, cheats on him etc, he believes none of it.. just keeps saying it's time now.

What can I do? ANything?