Sounds about right. My H kept saying how stupid his BB was for what he was doing to his kids and family. Guess what's ok for them isn't ok for someone else The poor woman - obviously her H isn't thinking with the right head
The funniest thing with my H is that one of the "senior" ladies at his Legion told OW point-blank that there was absolutely nothing wrong with his M until she stuck her nose in somewhere it shouldn't have been and that he had been lying to her from the get-go about being in a bad marriage, and she also told her that she hopes her kid doesn't grow up to be an amoral and unethical person like his mom. Ouch - don't mess with those little old ladies - they don't pull their punches Of course this particular little old lady sees my son as a surrogate grandson as she has none of her own and absolutely adores him. She's also been very supportive of me and has offered a "shoulder to cry on or just a sympathetic ear" if I want one. And the majority of the members, male and female and staff included, won't talk to OW or H when they're in there together unless they absolutely have to. Of course, I've heard most of this third hand, but when its more than one person saying the same thing there has to be some truth to it.....
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
The poor woman - obviously her H isn't thinking with the right head 
Of course this particular little old lady sees my son as a surrogate grandson as she has none of her own and absolutely adores him. She's also been very supportive of me and has offered a "shoulder to cry on or just a sympathetic ear" if I want one. And the majority of the members, male and female and staff included, won't talk to OW or H when they're in there together unless they absolutely have to. Of course, I've heard most of this third hand, but when its more than one person saying the same thing there has to be some truth to it..... 
