Hi Preggonow,
To be honest I have no idea how long they were together or if they were/are in love. I think things may have ended between them when he started talking and texting me again. She got jealous of me (so funny!) and suddenly she was the crazy jealous one in his eyes. (Accusing him of having feelings for me).

For all I know they are still together or still talking. I haven't asked and don't intend to any time soon. Until we are on better ground I want him to see me as being happy and self confident (even if I have to fake it) with or without him.

He keeps making slow positive strides so whether there is an OW doesn't change my plans.

Hi Whitehorse. Yes, auto pilot is better than where we were a few months ago. Thanks for stopping by. How have you been?


BD: Aug 2012
Separated since May 2013
S born Aug 2013
Aug 2013 H agrees to consider 'baby steps toward working things out'
H is/was actively seeing someone?