And Kate I know those feelings so well, so much easier to look outside rather than inside. I've been visiting that place lately. Thanks for the rumi reminder.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
But for me to reciprocate is not his LL, which is hard for me to not do. Like today, he had a migraine and I gave him all the things I thought would make him feel better and he was like "ummm". Lmao!!
Even though each of us has a PLL, that doesn't mean we don't respond to other LL's as well. We respond strongest to our PLL, but acts of other LL's have impact too. So even though his response was lackluster, I think you still did well and I'm sure he appreciated it on some level.
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Any thoughts? When guys say "x" do they really mean "x" all the time? Or are they waiting for us to figure out what they really want? ( girls do this, btw, guys....)
Oh yeah, we definitely play games too. Sometimes X means X and sometimes it's a test. And yes, we often wait for you to figure it out (whatever "it" may be) and we get aggravated when you don't. For example, my last bday before BD I told my W not to get me anything because frankly I was just tired of her always asking what I wanted when what I wanted was to be surprised. This was a dance we did every year, I would say 'don't get me anything' and she would get me cool stuff anyway. Only that year, she waited until like 2 days before my bday to ask, and she really didn't get me anything. Worst bday ever. BD was a couple of days later.
Ruby, I'm making a quick stop to say hello. One year goes by like nothing. I've been in my new place for nearly a year, and it definitely feels like home now...Lots can happen in 12 months, though. I was in a really bad place a year ago, and this year I'm following my calling. Where do you want to be a year from now?
