I realize that all of this conjecture and spying on my part violates several primary rules of DBing; namely I need to quit trying to apply logic to the MLC mind; I need to let go and detach; I need to quit snooping.
Right. Worry about your life, and make it into one of meaning and purpose without your wife in it. What new things are you doing for you?
Not only does chasing her around take the focus off you, but when she finds out it will push her even further away and hurt your chances of recommitment. You already said an A is not a deal breaker, right?
I went to a divorce support meetup a couple weeks ago. In his introduction one of the men there told the group about how his wife had him arrested, twice, for following and confronting her and her new lover.
Next time you consider confronting them just think about how well it works on the TV show "Cheaters". lol
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
