NEW LIFE / NEW ME - TAKING OFF!

[Fartiltre]

T,

Thanks! It’s just me again! I just want it all done at once! You are totally on the same line as Kate, Sandi and Adinva. – I won’t send it but take it bit by bit over the coming weeks.

iirc your W was thinking that xmas was going to be spent together???

Yes she has mentioned this several times before she moved out. She also mentioned spending New Years Evening together with the friends we have done this with for the last 6-7 years.
I guess she is still on this path but I am not. Mindreading, I know!

Any thoughts about if she says no I want them xmas day?

Then I will have them next year and children won’t be able to spend Christmas together. Rules on this one here is one year at one place and then switch. I don’t believe she will do this – I even can’t imagine it but if it happens I will state my opinions and properly consider taking it to the gov. department.

I'm not saying don't send it. I'm just pointing out what I see.

Yes, you are and after thinking once again – I totally agree! I need to change this behavior! I do this all the time with everybody!
Your points are taken – thanks a lot!


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