I hope you read my Long post to you, & gave it some thought.
Turning the focus on YOU is a two prong approach.
It's the best thing to do if the marriage really is over
And
It's also the most appealing way you can present yourself to him. So if there is a chance for a reconciliation, you're maximizing the chances of it... Always be upbeat w/ a PMA around him.
I KNOW Its hard.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016