So... remember when I said I'd unwrapped the books I got W for her b-day, and put the card in the flap of a book and put them on the closet shelf? Well, the wrapping paper and envelope were in the bathroom trash can, in plane site when she was over this weekend. I'm pretty sure she saw them - she just had a look when she came out of the bathroom. Also, I took the car for a grocery run, so she had plenty of snooping time (I even left my unsecured iPad....). Anyway, it also looks like the books were moved and the card was poking out and I'm sure when I left it, it was tucked in where it wasn't even showing. Oops. I almost feel bad, but.... not quite.
On the positive side, we had a good day Saturday at the movies and lunch. Spent some time at the mall. We watched a movie at the house when I got back from the store. She wanted to go to to dinner tonight (her treat) but we were both pretty tired, so looks like we're going tomorrow. I think she said she'd pay because I told her I'd stopped and topped off the gas in the car and that my debit card was rejected at the grocery store.
This is the interesting bit from this weekend's field report:
The FB cheating husband story - she told me about a school friend, who posted a couple rants on FB about her cheating husband (he's in the Navy and it seems he has a woman in every port) The weird thing is she told the story like the H was the bad guy (he is...) but without any sense of irony.
I almost feel bad, but.... not quite. 
