Sounds like you still managed to have a good day in spite of your H smile. The thought of Sunday roast at a good old English pub - yum. I have to cook my own Sunday roast smile.

It's the kids that suffer the most when they pull this last minute cancellation stuff. One day they may realize what kind of message they're sending, but by that time it could be too late - my H found that out with the two boys he's got with XW1. He missed so many weekends with them, then vanished from their lives altogether that when he finally reached out to them again a few years ago neither wanted anything to do with him. He keeps saying he doesn't want to make the same mistake with our son, but he's still doing things that have made my son comment "I don't like my new dad, I want the old one back". It's too hard to explain to a teenager about MLC.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks