I did not for one minute think you were trying to withhold your boys, I can tell by your posts that you are not that kind of person and I have a lot of respect for your posts. I was curious what made you feel that way because it didn't appear to be intentional withholding, esp with H at your house every afternoon. I hear what you are saying about the kids, stuff left everywhere, kids flip flopping all around. It really is tough on everyone, most of all them.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13